Love them back to life

You’ve ever tried to love someone who seem unlovable?By unlovable I mean they are not in a position to receive love.Like,they literally push you back when you try to get close to them.
They may even avoid long conversations with you.When you meet in person,they are literally always in hurry or blue tick you on socials when the conversation starts going somewhere.You may also notice some rudeness in them when you persist in seeking to engage with them
Doing your research,you may find out they have no close friends around them.They even do not relate well with their relatives because they will literally not allow anyone into their life.
They have literally built a wall around them so that no person can access them.They have closed their hearts completely so no one can enter their life.By this I mean,they can’t share their life with anyone.
One of the reason why some people behaves that way is if a person went through traumatic and frightening events or they had a bad encounter with a certain person/people.
They could also be that they experienced betrayal that left them afraid of opening up to people.
It could be a sign they were left bitter and resentful towards people after such happenings. Such people live with a notion that to protect their hearts from being wounded further,there is need for them to keep people from coming close to them
These are people who lives with a belief that  no one cares about them when actually there are people who cares.
Dealing with such people can be difficult because they requires a person who can show them that they cares and do understands them.
If you are having such a person around you,it will be a noble thing to reach out.Show them some compassion and kindness.

It’s a chance to prove to them that love do actually exists.

Be  light in their dark world.

Help them process their feelings.

Avoid statement that would make them feel worthless,instead use reassuring words.

Avoid condemning them,it’s not their fault.They were just unfortunate to encounter events that altered their perspective towards life

Don’t coerce them to talk about what they are going through if they are not willing instead advice them to see a therapist.

Be an agent of healing to someone.Love them back to life.Spread love to them.
Remember,you loose nothing in helping others.